F*ck It, I’m 50: Here’s to Living Bold, Unapologetic, and Free

Ladies, it’s time to get real. I’m 52, and let me just say it—this decade is the one where I’m done giving a damn about what anyone thinks. F*ck it, I’m 50! I’ve spent enough time worrying about being polite, playing by the rules, and making everyone comfortable, but this next version of me? She’s […]

Making Adult Friends: Why It’s Not Middle School Anymore (Thank God)

Let’s be honest—making friends as an adult can feel harder than finding a parking spot at Target on a Saturday. And if you’ve ever felt like you’re out there trying to find your squad with all the ease and grace of a middle schooler at their first dance, welcome to the club. It’s awkward. It’s […]

Developing My Joy Practice: How I Took Control of My Happiness

A little over a year ago, as my house became quieter and I officially became an empty nester, I had a major epiphany: I was at a crossroads. I’d spent so much time focused on my family, my businesses, and the grind, that when things slowed down, I realized I didn’t know what the heck […]

Adult Play and Hobbies: How I Rekindled Joy and Found My Moxie

About 18 months ago, I found myself standing at the edge of the empty-nest chapter of life, and let me tell you, it hit me hard. For years, I’d been in the grind—business, family, you name it. And then suddenly, my daughter was off living her fabulous life, and I was left wondering, What’s next […]

Hi! I'm Tobi

I help creative women (and a few really progressive dudes) design profit-generating, soul-fulfilling businesses that let them own their schedule, upgrade their life and feel more alive than ever!

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