The holiday season is here, and while it’s tempting to dive headfirst into a sea of casseroles and chaos, let’s hit pause for a moment. This time of year isn’t just about perfect pies and Pinterest-worthy decorations (though, let’s be honest, I do love a good tablescape). It’s about finding joy in the little things and soaking up gratitude like it’s a warm cup of spiked cider.
And let me tell you, gratitude looks a lot better in technicolor than in beige, so let’s add some vibrancy to the mix, shall we?
START WITH A GRATEFUL HEART (AND MAYBE A COCKTAIL)
Gratitude is like a great lipstick—it instantly brightens everything. So, before you get buried under gift wrap and leftovers, take a hot second to reflect on what you’re thankful for. Is it your family? Your friends? That ridiculously soft blanket you scored on sale? (Because same.)
Write it down, sing it out, or paint it in your favorite bold hues. If you’re feeling extra, create a gratitude board—a little collage of photos, quotes, or anything that makes your heart do a happy dance. Bonus points if it involves glitter.
FORGET THE TABLESCAPE—TRY A GRATITUDE BAR CART
Look, tablescapes are lovely, but who has the energy to pull out the fine china? (Ok, well I do–self-confessed China Hoe here but that’s probably just me, but I digress.) Instead, grab your trusty bar cart and turn it into a gratitude station. Stock it with colorful sticky notes, a jar for dropping in little thank-you scribbles, and maybe a bottle (or two) of something festive. Every time someone visits, they can add their note to the jar—or pour themselves a glass of whatever gives them joy. Cheers to gratitude with a splash of sass!
DRESS THE PART (BECAUSE FEELING THANKFUL IS A WHOLE MOOD)
You know that saying about dressing for the job you want? Well, dress for the gratitude you deserve. This season, go all out with bold jewel tones, funky patterns, or sparkly statement pieces that scream, “I’m thankful and fabulous, deal with it.” Who needs drab winter neutrals when you can shine brighter than a holiday disco ball?
SPREAD THE JOY (AND MAYBE SOME GLITTER)
Nothing says “I’m grateful for you” quite like a cheeky note or a gift wrapped with flair. Send a colorful card to the friend who always makes you laugh, or wrap presents in paper so bright it practically glows. Feeling extra generous? Host a low-key gathering where everyone shares their favorite holiday memory. It’s like group therapy, but with cocktails and fewer tears.
CLAIM YOUR PEACEFUL CORNER (AND GUARD IT LIKE YOUR LAST SLICE OF PIE)
Between the holiday madness and that one relative who always has an opinion, find a moment to escape. Whether it’s a cozy corner with your journal or your needlepoint, a brisk walk to clear your head, or just five minutes locked in the bathroom (we’ve all been there), make space to reflect on what really matters. Trust me, even the loudest family dinner is survivable when you’ve had a moment to recharge.
This holiday season, let gratitude be your favorite accessory—bold, joyful, and unapologetically YOU. Because life’s too short to play it safe, and there’s no better way to embrace the season than with a heart full of thanks and a world full of color.
