My perspective on relationships shifts when I view the world through my “joy lens.” We’ve all experienced disappointment in romantic relationships or friendships. However, it’s not always the fault of the relationship itself. Sometimes, it’s the unrealistic expectations we impose upon it. We find ourselves let down when reality fails to match the narratives of love stories or romantic comedies we think it should be. But here’s the truth: not every person we begin a friendship with is destined to be our lifelong friend or companion, and that’s perfectly okay. Today, let’s delve into the importance of creating space for others, setting boundaries, avoiding gossip, minimizing complaints, and dramatizing situations and relationships. Prepare for a fun, thought-provoking, and inspiring experience. You deserve healthy, joyful relationships; this episode is your guide to making them a reality!
IN THIS EPISODE:
- [0:50] Today, we are talking about idealized love, romantic and friendships
- [4:12] I discuss what I learned in my coaching certification training about romantic love and friendships
- [7:47] I reveal how my daughter is navigating friendships in college
- [14:01] The blame game of friendship
- [18:31] I discuss the alternative of “what is wrong with you” to “what happened to you” and how we rank ourselves against others
- [23:25] I apply “holding space” for others rather than judging them, how that affects my joy practice and a challenge to listeners
- [29:34] The value of journaling coupled with the joy practice and being authentic when speaking with others
Prepare to elevate your social media presence and supercharge your interior design business with our dynamic live 3-part training: ‘Show Up on Social Media Like a Pro!’ Join us as we guide you through the strategies and tactics to shine on social media platforms. Say goodbye to uncertainty and hello to confidence as you learn to engage, inspire, and connect with your audience like never before. Don’t miss this golden opportunity to level up your social media game and take your design business to the next level. Secure your spot now and get ready to make a lasting impact in the digital world!