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Ep #96: Why Your To-Do List is Killing Your Business

Listen To My Latest Podcast Episode: Ep #96: Why Your To-Do List is Killing Your Business

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Hey, what have you quit on already this year? That

Hey, what have you quit on already this year? That’s right, I’m talking to YOU! I’m calling you out! This is the time of year when people have already quit the gym. They’re quitting on their habits. So, what are you quitting on? When you don’t follow through, you are quitting on yourself. And every place you’re quitting is because of the thoughts you’re allowing yourself to continue to think! Quitting slows us down. Quitting brings you to a complete halt. When we quit, so often we're going to still want to do the thing later. And we're quitting in the moment because that instant relief that happens by letting ourselves quit, that relief from the pain of doing the hard work and those uncomfortable feelings, that's instant in the moment and it feels really good. But it feels really bad to quit on yourself in the long run—and then you have to start all over again! It’s so much better to plan to have the chips, to skip the workout, to sleep in, and then, go back to healthy choices for the rest of the day.
So this is your reminder not to quit on yourself. You’re worth showing up for. P.S. Next month, we’re talking ALL about HABITS in my coaching program, DesignYou. Come join me if you want support! <3 (link in bio @tobifairley or head to http://bit.ly/design-you) #habits #2020goals #noquitting #designyou #coaching #getsupport #decisionmaking #makeachoice

Do you have a "favorite chair" in your home? I do!

Do you have a "favorite chair" in your home? I do! It’s also what I like to call my Idea Incubator. It’s a distraction-free zone and it’s where I create my best ideas! When I sit there, creativity strikes. And I create similar spaces for my clients like this great spot in one of my favorite projects. I think it’s so fresh and pretty and I love all that sunlight streaming in. In my own home, my mornings are designed around my favorite chair where in the winter, I turn on the fireplace, make my favorite bulletproof coffee in my favorite mug and have my journal and blanket to cuddle with each morning before my family even starts their day. I feel so happy to start my quiet “me time” in my special spot. And often, this is when ideas start flowing and I take lots of notes that I can refer back to later when I’m working. Where is your Idea Incubator in your home? #homedesign #ideaincubator #entrepreneur #creativity goodieas #designyou

Did anybody do Dry January this month? As we're he

Did anybody do Dry January this month? As we're heading towards the end of January, I wanted to talk about it because it seems to be a popular trend this time of year, and I’ve heard mixed feedback on people that have tried it. Here’s my take: If it feels good and works for you, stick with it. But if you’re depriving yourself and then going to binge once it’s Feb 1, there might be a better way. That’s kind of like starving yourself for a month, only to binge-eat and gain all the weight back. I’ve heard of one-drink January, where you pick the day in January where you let yourself have one drink, instead of cutting it out altogether. That might be an option that works for you in the future. It’s really about creating long-term habits that support you, not depriving yourself for a month only to not monitor your drinking at all the rest of the year. What are your thoughts on the whole Dry January thing? #dryjanuary #designyou #wetbar #longtermhabits #habits #onedrinkjanuary #goalsetting #newyearsresolution

HA I love this! This is exactly how I’ll be cele

HA I love this! This is exactly how I’ll be celebrating my birthday this weekend! Going to bed early, not leaving my house and not going to a party :) What used to be my punishment really are my goals now! So excited to celebrate my 48th birthday in my home with my family 💕 #happybirthday #goals #birthdayplans🎂

Who else is counting down until the weekend? I'll

Who else is counting down until the weekend? I'll be celebrating my birthday and I can't wait! 🎉 Now that I’m going to be 48 (on Monday) and moving closer to my 50’s, I can see just how much my mindset has changed throughout my 40’s. And I’m honestly so proud of the shifts I’ve made throughout this decade of my life. I write my own rules now and I’ve done SO much mindset work to be able to do that. Even some of the people I love the most, I don’t feel responsible anymore for them being happy all the time. I’ve released myself from other people’s opinions. They’re welcome to have them, but their opinions are none of my business, and mine are none of theirs! I let people show up unconditionally and I’m letting myself show up in a way that’s best for me. This has helped me so much with not overworking too. I can’t wait to see what mindset shifts 48 brings!
#48 #betterandbetter #birthday #birthdayweekend #designyou

What are the 3 things that prevent us from going w

What are the 3 things that prevent us from going where we want to go? Time.
Money.
Discomfort. It’s uncomfortable to grow and change and do new things, especially things you’ve never done before! Getting real about all these things for me looks like pulling back the curtain. I’m going to show you how much money I spend, how much time it takes, and give you the REAL story. It’s time to get real in 2020. Are you with me? #gettingreal #2020 #personalgrowth #growthmindset

Want to know what I’m saying no to in 2020? Chec

Hi, I’m Tobi! For those of you who are new here,

Hi, I’m Tobi! For those of you who are new here, welcome! I wanted to share a few things you might not know about me: 🏠 I’m a Southern girl literally and at heart. I live with my husband Carter, my daughter @ellisonfairley and our Shih Tzu Izzy and Shichon Beckett in Arkansas. (Yes, Arkansas is the south!) ✍️ I journal every day and it’s how I get my best ideas! 💻 I’ve built two 7-figure businesses doing what I love: being an interior designer, a life coach + a business coach. 🗄️I moved my office into my home over 3 years ago and it’s one of the best decisions I ever made. Speaking of working from home, I often work from bed 🛏and I find it’s sometimes where I can get the most work done! 📅 Mondays used to stress me out, so now, I don’t start my workday until the afternoon. Monday morning is Tobi time, which means going to the gym, getting my nails done every other week, and not feeling like the week has to start in a mad rush. 🎉 Over the years, my work has been in some of the top design magazines in the country, and in the past few months, I’ve been published in some BIG publications. Just a few weeks ago, I was featured on @forbes! Talk about a dream come true!! 📖 I pick a word for every year. In 2020, my word is: FLOURISH. I recorded a whole podcast episode about it so you can check that out. 💙 I’m more into self-love than self-care. That means always taking the next right step towards loving myself more, in everything I do. 🍏 I drink my morning smoothies with a side of bacon (or eggs). I know what my body needs to stay full and focused! 📺 Believe it or not, my husband is a reality tv junkie, so we watch those kinds of shows together as a family, like the Bachelor, The Amazing Race and American Idol. 🙏 Mostly, I’m so grateful to have this space to connect with y’all. Your turn: Tell me something about you! Website: https://tobifairley.com #tobifairley #entrepreneurlife #interiordesign

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