Tobi Fairley | Oops! | Arkansas Interior Designer, Life & Business Coach

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There's two types of validation, and we're often s

There's two types of validation, and we're often seeking out the wrong one.

External validation comes from an outside source—clients, people in your industry, friends, family. It feels great in the short term, but it's always fleeting.

What you need instead is authentic validation. That's an inside job, friends. And it starts with putting yourself and your goals first.

Tune in to podcast episode #179 to learn how you can make yourself feel worthy the next time you look in the mirror. Click the link in my bio.

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#externalvalidation #authenticvalidation #interiordesign #bathroominspo #bathroomdecor #designyou #lovingyourself

When you’re doing something you enjoy like arran

When you’re doing something you enjoy like arranging flowers or reading a good book, you’re in the present moment.

Being present with your senses engaged is one way to practice mindfulness.

We spend so much time in the past and the future, or what other people are thinking or doing, that we spend very little time in the present. And the present is the only place where you can change the past and future.

What is your favorite way to practice mindfulness?

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#flowerdecor #interiordecorating #mindfulnesspractice #bepresentinthemoment #designyou #dresserdecor

Happy Friday! How are you wrapping up your week—

Happy Friday! How are you wrapping up your week—like my first picture —or the last? 😀

Some weeks leave us feeling ready to take on the world (or at least the weekend!) and some weeks, well, they are exhausting!

I hope you embrace whatever way you’re feeling today and that it leads you into an amazing weekend!

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#happyfriday #designyou #bedroominterior #bluedesignsdecor #bluebedroom #interiordesign #embracetheday

My beach house client’s guest bedroom is so peac

My beach house client’s guest bedroom is so peaceful and it’s whispering to me “come on Tobi, rest!” Do you hear it, too?

If you’re feeling burnout you may hear it!

The reason most of us are feeling burnout though isn’t from physically doing too much.

Burnout is caused from tirelessly resisting yourself. Rest with that for a minute.

When we’re swimming upstream, when we’re forcing something to happen, when we’re feeling like we have to do something—it’s exhausting.

It’s the thinking, the forcing—the resisting—that exhausts us over and over again because we’re trying to be something we’re not.

I’m sharing all of this with you because I have something to help you get back to yourself. To resist less. It’s called Human Design and it’s an amazing tool to guide you back home, to yourself! It’s part woo and part practical—right up my alley!!

Want to learn more? Tune into my podcast #177 to understand how aligning with your human design can completely change your life. Click the link in my bio.

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#designyou #beachhouseinteriors #beachhousebedroom #bedroomdecor #feelingburntout #interiordesign #humandesign

Where has the summer gone?! Do we say that at this

Where has the summer gone?! Do we say that at this time every year?

I love summer and the beach and that made designing this house on the Florida coast a perfect project!

If you love the summer like I do, how do you keep that summer vibe alive after Labor Day?

Or are you ready to ditch summer and ease into all things Fall? Let me know which season you are loving right now!

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🏡 Stylist @elizabethdemos

#interiordesign #livingroominspo #sunroom #seashells #seashelldecor #beachhouseinspo

I wish we could take a seat together in my client’s beach house, because I’ve got a mind-blowing idea I want to share with you!

Here it is: you can’t delegate accountability.

Let me explain. I’m taking a course with Mariah Coz and she blew my mind with how she talks about accountability.

We often seek others to hold us accountable for various things in business and our personal lives.

But when you say you need accountability, what you’re really saying is that you don’t do what you say you’re going to do.

No judgement. I’ve been there.

You’re saying you don’t have your own back and really don’t really want to do the work, because if you did, you would have done it already.
In essence you tried to delegate your accountability to someone else. I am all for delegation, but this is one area you have to own. It’s your job to show up -- it’s not your trainer, coach or partner’s job.

So if we were sitting here together, what would you tell me you’re going to start holding yourself accountable for?

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This powder room is from a Florida beach house pro

This powder room is from a Florida beach house project that we designed from the ground up & had so much fun working on. You can see that my clients wanted a house full of color & life.

I love to take a color and find creative ways to incorporate it in multiple ways in a space — especially in a small, functional area like a powder room. Why not make everyday spaces memorable?!

When using bold wallpaper on a client project, do you prefer a large-scale pattern (like this) or a small-scale one?

📸Photo by @nancy_nolan_photography

#boldwallpaper #greendecor #bathroominspo #bathroomdecor #goboldorgohome

Have you ever thought about how much money you’d

Have you ever thought about how much money you’d like to make?

There's no wrong answer. Maybe it’s 6 figures, multiple 6 figures or even 7 figures. Whatever your number, make sure you know the “why” behind it.

You have to get clear on why you're trying to earn it. If it’s to make an impact as you spend it (or maybe even give it away!), then you’ve got to define your values while you do this work. These topics and so much more are covered in an incredible book I just finished reading, The Soul of Money by Lynne Twist.

If you want to change the way you feel about money in order to move from insufficiency to freedom, I recommend checking out this book!

Have you read it? If so, share your favorite takeaway in the comments.

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#soulofmoney #lynnetwist #revenuegoal

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