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Tobi TV: Expanding Your Space with a Room-Sized Rug

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Hello Friends! It’s Tobi TV Tuesday and today I am talking about one of my favorite topics: how to use room-sized rugs to really make the most of your space. So often we just feel forced to buy the standard size rugs that are available for sale out in the retail world.

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But what happens when a 8×10 or 9×12 rug just isn’t the right fit for your room? Well that’s when I use either custom rugs or have wall-to-wall carpet made into custom sizes to perfectly fit the space. Here’s the video I did for the P. Allen Smith show Garden Style talking about this very dilemma…

Here is a room where I took wall-to-wall carpet and made it into the perfect rug…

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And here are my tips for fulling your room with a rug to make the most of your space:

1. Make the rug so that it is 12″-18″ off the wall all the way around the space. This offers you comfort throughout the whole room and it gives you “permission” to use all the floorspace for arranging furniture.

2. Work with a designer to create a custom pattern and pick your custom yarn colors if your budget allows. Or work with your local carpet or home store to select a carpet you love (I am drawn to patterned versions, of course) and have it bound into a rug that perfectly fits your space.

3. Don’t forget all the exciting materials you can use for creating room sized rugs – you can have natural fibers like sisal and seagrass made into rugs and you can also take good ‘ole cut-pile comfy carpet and make it into a solid rug with a contrasting border around the edge or even have fun with it by creating your own pattern. I often have 24″ strips of carpet bound together in stripes for a bold graphic pattern on the floor.

4. And finally, I even use great ready-made rugs like the cabana stripes from Dash and Albert and sew them together to create room-sized rugs. Here’s an image where I did that very thing.


So good luck expanding your space and your comfort in your room by using a room-sized rug. Now leave me a message and let me know if you have tried this design tip in your home. And also be sure to share this great design idea and video with all your design loving friends!!

Happy Decorating!











All New Design A-to-Z!

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Are you thinking about redecorating or remodeling your home? Or more accurately, are you a design-lover who is constantly redecorating?

Or maybe you are a design professional that is looking for new inspiration or techniques after becoming tired of your old ones. Or possibly, you are new to this business, or just getting into the design business after having it as a hobby for years!


No matter which profile fits you the best, Design A-to-Z is my one signature event that appeals to professional designers and design enthusiasts alike! It is a great fit for anyone who really has a PASSION for great design and anyone who wants to learn my own system for designing magazine-worthy interiors that I use for each and every one of my projects. And this next A-to-Z course – held Sept. 30-Oct. 1 at the Stoneleigh Hotel in Dallas – features ALL NEW content.


If you’ve never attended before, THIS session of Design A-to-Z is going to really rock your world! And if you HAVE been to this event in the past, come on back for an all-new creative refresher course – I promise you’ll find new ideas and concepts that will help you jump-start that creativity!


This course is so much more than just a how-to guide. We’re going to really dig into the idea of color and how to use it most effectively. We’re going to discuss what “style” really looks like in today’s interiors – and how to find your own PERSONAL style! And then we’re going to talk about function and how to ensure that your own home or your design projects really fit the lifestyle for the people living there.

I will empower you to design outside your comfort zone, and that is what is going to make designing exciting and fulfilling AND give you stunning results. Staying “safe” with all your interior design selections is no fun at all, right?!?


And speaking of fun, this is going to be a fun AND fantastic event – and I want to see you there! So come on – get registered here and join me for a creative event unlike any other!

I can’t wait to have a photo op with you soon. Besides, it’s going to be a hands-on, down and dirty Design-a-Palooza! Don’t miss it.

Join me!








Soulful Sunday: Cooking feeds my Soul!

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good food is good moodI love to cook and to bake. Both are relaxing and are creative expressions for me. I have been at home in the kitchen since I was about 10 years old or younger. And my own 9-year old daughter loves to cook and bake too! It’s an activity we love to do together.

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There is something about this time if year when Fall is approaching that really gets me in the mood to be in the kitchen. And I have been working hard to get my picky 9 year-old to try some new foods and some healthier foods lately. It seems to help her try new things when she is involved in the cooking.

There is one piece of this cooking puzzle that is a challenge for me at the moment. My much in need of renovation kitchen. And I am getting REALLY close to getting my mind around starting the BIG changes in my new home. And by that I mean more than painting the walls in here, or recovering the furniture in there. These baby steps are what I’ve been up to so far since moving around this time last year. And yes, it’s hard to believe it’s already been almost a year since we moved in. I thought I would already be in the thick of a major renovation by now, but thankfully, my husband and I have both been extremely busy this year with great things happening in both our businesses and we just haven’t been ready to pull the trigger on the demolition. Plus we haven’t forced ourselves to decide if we are living through the renovation or temporarily moving out. I guess we’ve been procrastinating.

But when I cook, especially in this less than functional space, it does help me know what I want my new kitchen to be. The silver lining to being too busy to complete my kitchen is that I have given myself extra time to make some important decisions on the design and layout of my home, particularly in the kitchen. Since we are not enlarging the home, at least right now, making the most of the footprint that exists is a must.

So I can finally tell you (later this week) what appliances I LOVE for my new kitchen. So meet me here Thursday for my New House Diary post to get those juicy appliance details! But today I am going to enjoy cooking with my daughter in my less than perfect kitchen. And here’s what’s on the menu to feed our tummies and our soul…

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She’s baking pumpkin spice muffins. A great recipe for her because it’s only a spice cake mix and a can of pumpkin with a dash of water to get the consistency just right. Before baking these recently with a friend, she would never have eaten pumpkin. And since broccoli was the only vegetable on her list, I am going to count pumpkin in that category for her now!

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I am feeling like cooking with quinoa, so I’m making this yummy vegetarian chili I found on Pinterest last year from the site Damn Delicious.

With the left over quinoa, I’ll be making some quinoa banana nut muffins perfect for my breakfast with the busy week I have coming up.

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So what about you…do you love cooking and baking like I do? Any new recipes getting you excited lately? And are there any things that you especially love to cook now that Fall is on it’s way. Leave me a comment and let me know. I am always looking for something new and healthy to cook!

Happy Sunday Y’all!








Self-care Saturday: Are You an Early Riser? The Day’s A Wasting!

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My maternal grandfather, Fred May, was an early riser. If you slept in past 7:00 am even as a teenager (and 6:00 am is probably more accurate), he thought the “Day Was A Wasting!” And unfortunately  fortunately for me, Beverly Ann May Wells (aka my mom Bebe) inherited what I lovingly call the “Fred May Mentality”. It was all that she could stand to busy herself until my brother and I would get out of bed on weekends or in the summer. When we were in our most lazy slumber habits during our teen years, by 9:00am mom had had it and would huffily come into our rooms, throw open the curtains, pull back our covers and tell us to GET UP! Life was just too short to sleep in and we had stuff (aka work) to do! This speaks volumes to those of you who wonder why I absolutely love to work, right?!? It’s a habit almost 40 years in the making.

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But I actually have this sort of mindset and thinking to thank for many of my accomplishments in life. And though at the time I may not have appreciated our Saturday morning rituals of getting up with the sun, cooking a delicious breakfast, having the whole house cleaned, closets organized and yard work done before most people got out of bed on the weekend–I now practice so many of these habits in my own life and they are a responsible for keeping my stress down (I live in a very organized way) and helping me be healthy and fulfilled.

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Statistics show that people who get up early are more successful and that many of the world’s most successful people get up early. So what about you—Are you an early riser? Believe it or not, even if you think you’re a night owl, you can change your sleep patterns and adopt the habit of getting up early. I have been both a night owl and an early riser at various times in my life, but I prefer getting up early. It’s when I’m at my best!

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Why? Well how many of us are constantly thinking “If only there were more hours in the day?” I know I am guilty of that. And it is true that getting up early literally adds hours to your days, weeks, months and years. Look at this quote from Steve Pavlina in his blog post about How to become an early riser and his follow-up Part 2 to that post ..

“Think about what you could do with that extra time. Even an extra 30 minutes per day is enough to exercise daily, read a book or two each month, maintain a blog, meditate daily, cook healthy food, learn a musical instrument, etc. A small amount of extra time each day adds up to significant amounts over the course of a year. 30 minutes a day is 182.5 hours in a year. That’s more than a month of working full-time (40 hours per week). Double it if you save 60 minutes a day, and triple it if you save 90 minutes a day. For me the savings was about 90 minutes/day. That’s like getting a free bonus year every decade. I’m using this time to do things that I previously didn’t have the time and energy to do. It’s wonderful.”


My most healthy, happy and productive days and even years are when I am in the routine of getting up early. What constitutes early you ask? Well my perfect rising time is 5:30. I can sit with my laptop and do some social media cheerleading for my friends on twitter at this hour. I can do my daily meditation and I can get my exercising in for the day. All of these things start me off on the right track mentally and physically. And at the end of the day I feel like I got double the time back because I have already exercised so I have some time freed up in the evening for my family or other activities that I want to do. And how often do you really have time to do what YOU want to do. Well if you are a mom like me, it’s pretty rare.

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So are you ready to commit to becoming an early riser? Need help with the transition? I actually find Steve’s tips really helpful. And if you’re telling yourself you’re not a morning person. That doesn’t matter. It’s not about being naturally a morning person. It’s about creating a habit of getting up early. And anyone can do this. Dr. Wayne Dyer in his book “Wishes Fulfilled” talks about how his son, the epitome of Night Owls, changed his late-sleeping ways and changed his life for the better forever!

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I believe you can’t afford NOT to start this life-changing habit? WHY? Because many of you who aren’t making the most of your time at work or with family are also not exercising or practicing self-care and you aren’t taking much needed vacations. You think you “don’t have time to”. But if you got back a full month (or two or three) in a single year, you would have time for all these things. You would have the time to dominate in your industry and in your health. And you could spend time with your family and time on sandy beaches or traveling Europe each year. And after all, isn’t that the kind of thing you dream of and what you think you’re working so hard for?

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So join me in being an early riser. People often ask me how I get everything done that I do in business and life. And one part of it is that I get up early. And I surround myself with other early risers including my husband, my 9-year old daughter (she’s naturally an early riser and always has been) and my team members at work. And if that many people in my life are getting extra weeks or even months in their lives compared to everyone else, it’s no wonder we are accomplishing so much!


So when you ask yourself this important questions—”Can a girl like me really have it all in life?” I think the answer is YES! But only if you get up early and take on your day (and your dreams) like the world’s most successful people do.

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Happy Self-care Saturday Y’all. And cheers to those of you who’ve already been up for hours drinking coffee and making life happen!


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Tobi TV: How to Make a Grand Room More Intimate

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It’s Tuesday, and you know what that means – it’s time for Tobi TV! This week I thought it would be fun to take you back to my room at the Hampton Designer Showhouse, to give you some ideas of how to make a big room feel more cozy.

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The master bedroom I designed is big! It is about 20×20 and has 12-foot ceilings, which is a grand space that can feel overwhelming. Take a look at these tips that will bring this room down to size…

So here are my Tobi’s Tips for Making a Grand Room More Intimate:

1. Use a room-sized rug – A rug that fills the room pulls each part of the room together, from a sleeping area to a sitting area. It really makes a big room much more cohesive and is worth every penny!

2. Large-scale furniture – You really have to use the right scale of furniture for a big room. If you go too small, you’ll be left with an unbalance room that looks “off.” Think about a tall headboard for your bed, or high-backed chairs, or a larger-sized chest.

3. Take your window treatments all the way to the ceiling – This is a great way to fool the eye into thinking the room is smaller and more cozy. It’s also much more luxurious and properly fills the space on the wall, so don’t stop at the top of the window!

4. Use wallpaper – I love wrapping a big room in a great wallpaper like the one in the Hampton Designer Showhouse. Wallpaper fills a lot of wall space so you don’t have to worry about having a lot of art on the walls, which can become very busy, and expensive!

5. Remember scale for your light fixture – Just like the furnishings, do not go too small with any light fixtures you use in the room. You need to use a grand fixture that can hold its own.

So I hope you’ll use these tips to help make a larger room in your house feel more intimate and cozy. Do you have any other tips you would like to share? I would love to hear them! And remember to share this video with your design loving friends!

I’ll see you next week on another episode of Tobi TV!